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KATHIE POWELL
CERTIFIED GRIEF COACH
END OF LIFE DOULA
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When Connection Fades
Understanding the Final Stages of Life. What I've learned from the dying. One of the hardest truths I’ve learned, both as a wife and as an End of Life Doula, is that as people approach the end of life, their capacity for connection begins to fade. It’s not because they love us any less. It’s not because we’ve done something wrong. It’s because they are slowly turning inward, preparing to leave. For family and friends, this can be deeply painful. We might feel rejected or conf
Kathie Powell
Oct 194 min read
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Adventures in Online Dating: The Glasses Got Me
This journey as a widow is one that has many twists and turns. My heart has always been one to share the adventures this change has...
Kathie Powell
Oct 124 min read
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Stoke your fire
Little girls come into the world full of fire. They laugh with their whole bodies, speak their minds without hesitation, talk loud and...
Kathie Powell
Jul 293 min read
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The Power Of One Unexpected Hug
We don’t outgrow the need for a hug. Not as children, not as adults, and certainly not in grief. Hugs are one of the most human things we...
Kathie Powell
Jul 132 min read
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"64 – A Birthday for Us Both"
I’ve never been someone who made a big deal about my birthdays. It’s not that I didn’t care I just never really needed the spotlight. To...
Kathie Powell
Jun 273 min read
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A Soft Place To Land
As sisters through the years we used to joke about moving in together someday. Two sisters, growing old side by side, long gray hair and...
Kathie Powell
May 282 min read
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Grief Goes Where My Love Goes Which Is Everywhere
By Kathie Powell They say "grief is just love with nowhere to go". It’s meant to be comforting, I suppose. And in the early days, when I...
Kathie Powell
May 172 min read
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Tuesdays Used to Be... Just Tuesdays
The Ordinary Becomes Sacred Tuesdays used to be just Tuesdays. A day like any other, caught between Monday’s groan and the slow coast...
Kathie Powell
Apr 84 min read
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Holding Grief Gently
Grief is one of the heart’s natural responses to loss. When we grieve, we give ourselves permission to feel the truth of the pain of our...
Kathie Powell
Mar 24 min read
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Year two...thoughts
Remember each one of our experiences is different. This is my current experience after completing 2 years of life without John. For me...
Kathie Powell
Feb 23 min read
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Horses, Memories, and a Love That Endures
This memory isn’t the most flattering of me, but it’s an honest one—a glimpse into our lives together and the incredible man I shared so...
Kathie Powell
Jan 184 min read
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I'm done talking about Christmas...but what's next? New Year's...ugh.
So, we’ve somehow got through Christmas—or dodged it altogether (because honestly, why not?). And just when we thought we could take a...
Kathie Powell
Dec 27, 20243 min read
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Grief During the Holidays: Can grief and joy coexist?
The holidays have a way of amplifying our grief. It’s not that we don't miss our loved ones during the rest of the year, but as the world...
Kathie Powell
Nov 28, 20243 min read
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Grief over the holidays
In Canada Thanksgiving is a few days away, other countries celebrate similar dates and some don't celebrate this holiday at all. Either...
Kathie Powell
Oct 7, 20244 min read
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Embracing Joy Within Our Grief
Grief is such a wild ride, isn’t it? One moment you’re deep in your feelings, and the next, something—a song, a memory, or even a silly...
Kathie Powell
Sep 19, 20242 min read
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Year two...is it harder? Why not try dating...and lets see...
I'm not sure who they are but "they" say the second year is the hardest. I heard this my first year and thought, "Really, you have got to...
Kathie Powell
Aug 4, 202410 min read
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The things we've been taught aren't always true ...
I don't know about you but I was taught as a child that if I was feeling anything other than happy to keep those thoughts to myself. "No...
Kathie Powell
Jul 25, 20245 min read
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Thoughtful gifts ideas
I am a gift giver its one of my love languages. So I thought I would share some simple things that really matter to me in my life as a...
Kathie Powell
Jul 1, 20245 min read
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Embracing Grief: A lifelong Journey
Losing someone we love is one of the hardest things we’ll ever face. And let’s be honest, the idea that "time heals all wounds" can feel...
Kathie Powell
May 30, 20243 min read
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A Reflection on the Journey of Older Widows/Widowers
Let's take a moment to sit down together and delve into a topic that often lingers just out of view. Lets talk about the experience of...
Kathie Powell
Apr 30, 20243 min read
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