frequently asked questions

Everyone will experience grief uniquely. We cannot compare our losses or how we feel about them. Our grief is a representation of the intensity of our love. We can experience a wide range of emotions. Grief is a natural response to loss.

Understand that you cannot make it better for the grieving person. You cannot fix this. Let them feel what they feel. Be a heart with ears. The most important thing you can do for a grieving person is to listen without judgment.

Yes, sometimes we can grieve for someone we didn’t know. It can be someone who inspired us, we admired their work and their presence here on earth touched our lives.

Be gentle, clear and honest when talking to children about death. Avoid saying things like “God called them home”, “They went to sleep”, “They are no longer with us”, “They are gone.” This style can be very confusing and can frighten a child even more. Be mindful of the child's age and development and plan what you will say. It is important to plan what you will say. Using Children's books and videos can help.

A End of Life Doula, is a non-medical practitioner who guides individuals and their families through the dying process by way of presence, support, advocacy, education, and companionship. Just as birth doulas support mothers birthing a new life, a death doula supports individuals leaving this life into the next.

End of Life Doulas are a calming and reassuring presence with knowledge of the death process, and a compassionate resource for families who may be overwhelmed and grieving at the impending death of their loved one. Death Doulas offer a variety of services to assist in the transition of dying, but are first and foremost a grounding, reliable, knowledgeable and comforting presence during a most emotional time.

End Of Life Doulas can be contacted at any time during the end of life process. The sooner the doula can enter into the process, the more time can be spent getting to know the individual and family, creating quality care plans, prioritizing end of life needs, and creating sacred space and meaning for the individual and family.

Refunds: As a service-based business, I am unable to offer refunds for my services.

Cancellation Policy: I require full payment prior to starting The Grief Recovery Program. If you need to cancel or reschedule your appointment, please notify me at least 48 hours before your scheduled appointment time. Exceptions are made in emergency situations only. There is no refund for not completing the program. Together the goal is work with you to complete this program.