Welcome to My World!

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I’m a passionate, energetic soul navigating life as a proud grandmother, a loving mom, and a dedicated friend. I had to add widow to my long list of who I am which is a title I never wanted. Even as a griever the truth is I'm silly by nature and feel deeply. I love to have fun. At 63, I embrace every facet of who I am - I can proudly say I'm an author, coach, educator and forever learner. I am a doula for the dying. A lover of life. An entrepreneur. A good listener who is up for those hard, uncomfortable conversations about grief, dying, death and living. I enjoy daily walks with my dog and most of the time like working out at the gym. I always feel better when I move my body. I've also become a pickle ball enthusiast. I have a fun podcast with my bestie. We call it our joy project and in it we hit all the feels.  I have a sweet tooth. I  don't cook much anymore but I'm learning to enjoy a good meal. My journey has been shaped by love, loss, and a commitment to growth.

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As a widow, I carry the memory of my late husband John, my true north, who left this world far too soon. His death was a profound turning point, teaching me that grief is not something to overcome, but a companion that walks with us. I cry easier now and I laugh harder. I feel my life fully.

 

Why do I do what I do??

I’ve become a grief educator and coach, helping others navigate their own paths through loss because this is an area of need and its the most rewarding process. Something that is curtain, is we will all experience loss and we need to be heard without judgement as we learn to carry our grief. I am here to support and encourage you as you process our own unique journey.

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Like I said I am a mother to three incredible women who have been my teachers since before they took their first breaths and continue to as they mature. A role I adore is being a grandmother to seven bright light bearers and world changers who are also my teachers. They bring a newness and hope into my world each and every day.

I find joy in simple pleasures—I am a coffee lover and have a large collection of mugs. I enjoy quiet moments, and heartfelt conversations.  

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My mission is to create sacred spaces for the grieving and for those nearing the end of life, providing emotional support, respite, and advocacy for families. Together, we can honor life’s final moments with love, intention, and grace, ensuring legacies of love endure beyond physical presence.

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Some things I've been in my life are a reserve solider, a sheet metal worker, a horse trainer, breeder and barn hand, I sang in some rock bands, lead worship at church, was a personal trainer and a aerobics in the 80's, I was apart of a 4 women team that ran the Death Race, I was in management at a large corporation, I worked with my husband which was the best, I had my own little business with my oldest daughter selling t-shirt with inspirational sayings. I've been and done a lot to get here and I'm so glad you are here to meet with me. Your story matters.  ​

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Join me as we celebrate life, navigate loss, and embrace the journey ahead, one day at a time.

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Ultimately, my purpose is simple yet profound, to guide you in embracing your life, your grief and teach you about death without fear so you can live fully till you die.